The following is one of many, many stories people have shared with me after the tragic and devastating news surfaced of Jeriah Mast’s sexual crimes against boys in Haiti. This, followed by the beyond-devastating response of Christian Aid Ministries and, as you will read here, *some* Anabaptist churches.
For many, the reality of those crimes has faded into oblivion, carefully masked behind the miracle story of God releasing CAM’s hostage-taken short term missionaries. (Albeit to the tune of several million dollars).
For others it remains the dark and demonic misrepresentation of a God who blesses such things. The author here is one such person. Honour their story. The harm done has imm dilate and eternal consequences. And the church/religious community’s response, no less so.
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My world shifted off its axis in 2020. I will never forget the way my whole body turned to ice, and I could feel myself begin to dissociate when we were exhorted across the pulpit that it was better not to talk about the scores of victims of CAM and Jeriah Mast. There were prayer requests for Jeriah and his family and for CAM, but I cannot recall that I ever heard anyone publicly mention his victims at all. I watched in utter shock and disbelief.
I still cannot fathom the conservative Anabaptist response. I can say with confidence that no non-Anabaptist organization could do the horrific things that CAM has done and still receive our support. We would never tolerate those crimes in an organization that wasn’t our own. I don’t know if church will ever feel safe again.
For years I have fought through trauma to attend church. I rock my babies and listen to sermons in the same building, where, I, as an already traumatized teenager, was assaulted by adult men. The grace of God, fear of going to hell, and witnessing the aftermath of someone else’s suicide is the only reason I didn’t slit my wrists after that day. So many times I eyed the razor in the bathroom, and pictured the blood and water swirling down the drain, releasing me at last.
As an adult, until 2020, I made all the excuses in the world. They didn’t know better. I was a difficult child. If I had behaved better all the things wouldn’t have happened. After 2020, there were no more excuses left. NOTHING those other children had done or didn’t do, could ever excuse the tiniest bit of what CAM and Jeriah did to them. WE provided the resources used to coerce those children, WE knowingly sent multiple missionaries with known allegations of abuse to have access to some of the most vulnerable children on earth.
The last time we sang “People of the Living God” in church, I froze. I COULD NOT sing those words. I had a vision of dozens and dozens of beautiful children – Jeriah and CAM’s victims -crouched in the shadows outside the safety of our church walls, listening to those words float out through our windows, and wondering what sort of a monster God must be, if we, who represent Him, care so little about the wanton destruction of innocent bodies and souls. Those children found no more mercy and care inside our church building than I had years before.
Church has become the place where we sacrifice souls while we sit in our smug self assurance that we are the true people of God. These people inside the church, they are bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. These little ones in the shadow of the church’s walls – they are heart of my heart, soul of my soul.
I am both inside and outside the church building. Sitting inside with those singing, while also crouching, shivering, in the shadows outside, wondering what sort of a God this Living God truly is.
Is He who they said He is? And if He is, how can I trust Him? And yet, if He were not the Living God, I would not be living either.
I hope that He cares about finding me as much as I care about finding Him.
~ Anonymous ~
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These sentiments are shared by others. Even so, it is jarring for me to hear them and read them again and again. I’m glad people feel safe to express these losses to me, even when all I have to offer is the validation that I hear them and I understand. I really, really do.
The men around Achan died back in Joshua’s day. I don’t reckon things have changed much. Except how God no longer sends Joshua along to deal with Achan. But it seems still to be the people around ‘Achan’ that pay the price.
Healing begins with acknowledgment of the depth of wrong done and harm caused.
As always…
Love,
~T~
©️Trudy Metzger 2024
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