Multi-cultural, Inter-denominational Ministry… The Way it Should Be

IMG_3644 (3) Healing for the Brokenhearted Conference October 23-24, 2015 (Trudy & Tim Metzger)

Since mid-July, or somewhere thereabouts, the planning started. We had almost 2 years of no conferences in Ontario, and only a few in other places, and felt uncertain about tackling it again, so close to home. The work, the planning and the backlash had become a challenge two years ago that had left me weary, and wondering what God really wanted from Generations Unleashed, in that department.

I did more one-off speaking engagements during that 2 year stretch and discovered–not to my surprise, how much easier they are. While the topic of sexual abuse and violence is never a light or casual topic, there is a ‘weightiness’ to a full weekend of ministry, that is not as present in a stand alone engagement. The temptation has been strong to shift to ‘the easy way’…  Admittedly, my humanity comes into play in cringing at the challenges, in particular criticism of our ministry or personal attacks, and reaches for that ‘easier’ way.

And, yet, each time we did a conference during that time, regardless of the challenges, we saw God move so powerfully, so unmistakably, that it seemed right to continue to do them. Even so, the timing was a matter of question until mid-summer when the stirring bubbled over, and I approached Pastor Brent at Maple View Mennonite church. And the rest is history. But not without a story…

In Pennsylvania, back in July, I stayed a week after the conference to spend time with individuals looking for support in their healing journey, or just to connect with people. It wasn’t part of the plan, but when I ran it by Tim, he felt it would be a good thing for me to stay… and that’s how it came about that I stayed. Right there, at the conference, we made the decision that if there were requests, I would do it. Little did I know that God was orchestrating something much bigger, something so powerful it would supersede any dreams that had long stirred in my heart. A dream to work, hand in hand, shoulder to shoulder as ‘one in Christ’ with my Mennonite friends.

It began there, in PA, when a Mennonite pastor did the ‘Pastor’s Confession’ that Friday evening, acknowledging the pain caused by leaders ignoring, neglecting or intentionally covering up for perpetrators. He share the heart of God with tenderness and compassion for victims. He offered unapologetic ‘Amens’ from time to time, throughout the evening, and offered strong support for the wounded. But, however touching for myself and others, that was only the beginning…

Later that week I sat in the home of an Old Order Mennonite couple, visiting. Their joy bubbled over. The name of Jesus was held high. Their culture was respected, and appreciated. And in the middle of all of that, they spoke with bold truth about their own stories, which included molestation and sexual immorality. The shared openly what Jesus has done for them, while acknowledging the damage and deep wounds.

I listened with fascination and that’s when I asked, not expecting it to ever happen, let alone them saying yes, “Would you consider sharing your story at a conference? People need to hear this!” I felt it powerfully. They have a story, a voice within the culture. I am marked because I left. I’m on the outside. I had asked others, over the years, and always it was a ‘no’, even if initially they thought maybe they would, or said they could. Sooner or later the weight of that exposure took over, and they changed their minds. I expected a similar outcome. Oh me of little faith…

No more had I posed the question, and both husband and wife agreed, enthusiastically, they would like to do it. Taken off guard, and having fully expected them needing a few weeks to contemplate, I didn’t know quite how to respond. I don’t even remember what I said next.

A few weeks after I returned to Ontario, they called for some other purpose, and in conversation our conference came up. “Were you serious about us coming?” she asked. I told her I was, but reminded her they would be away over that time. And that is when she explained they had the wrong month, but if we could work out all the details, they would be delighted to join us.

We spent many hours in the following weeks, talking on the phone, going over their story, and piecing together what would eventually be a 2-session interview, for our Saturday morning sessions at the conference.

Saturday morning exceeded my expectations, as I watched God move

The weekend of connecting with friends and fellow believers was encouraging and filled with hope. And throughout the entire event, the one thing that blessed my heart, over and over, was our unity in spite of differences. An Old Oder Mennonite couple, a Baptist, and whatever Tim and I are in our non-denominational ‘present’ with United church and Mennonite background, all backed up with a beautifully mixed audience in attendance. Together we worshiped God and lifted Jesus high. And the awareness was strong in me, “this is church… this is the Body of Christ in unity, the way it should be”.

colour of love

And that partnering together is one of the most beautiful things I have ever experienced in my life.

~ T ~

© Trudy Metzger

10 thoughts on “Multi-cultural, Inter-denominational Ministry… The Way it Should Be

  1. truthseeker October 27, 2015 / 9:17 am

    Makes me cry all over again, reading this. Amen n amen. It was beautiful. I could do that day all over again. One day only touches the tip of the iceberg of healing! A whole week of evenings of crying, releasing and healing would be wonderful.

  2. gillscottcoach October 27, 2015 / 9:20 am

    I am thrilled for you that your patience and compassion has broken through in this way. Congratulations and joy and strength to you!

    • Trudy Metzger October 27, 2015 / 8:54 pm

      Thank you Gill. God is moving and healing; good things are happening! Thank you for celebrating with us!

    • Trudy Metzger October 27, 2015 / 8:54 pm

      Thank you Dale! As always, it was a pleasure to do ministry with you as well, and the feedback has been nothing but positive. Wishing you many blessings!

  3. Parker J October 27, 2015 / 3:53 pm

    Beautiful. Would love to have you back on to discuss so others can know.

  4. Joel Horst October 27, 2015 / 8:45 pm

    Will you have any recordings available from the conference?

    • Trudy Metzger October 27, 2015 / 8:53 pm

      Joel, we won’t have recordings. Sorry. The reasons are two-fold; first because there was an oversight and recording was missed and secondly we don’t have the liability to cover potential lawsuits for such a thing. (We wouldn’t anticipate lawsuits, but unfortunately have to be prepared for such a thing.)

  5. hisprincess60 October 29, 2015 / 12:35 am

    I think of some of my favorite words!!! Love, Hope, and Redemption!!! God is so good and can do exceedingly abundantly above all we can ask or think!

  6. Lisa November 8, 2015 / 12:47 am

    My sister n law

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